My husband is very strict and stubborn. When we first met, I thought that a man should be strict like him, but over the years, the more I live with him, the more complicated things become.
It started with clothes, he made me dress modestly, then came bans on going to beauty salons, and as a result after just a few years of marriage I became a homely woman and wouldn’t even leave the house.
He does not spare money for himself and always dresses well and brands, and for me he only buys household gifts.
Recently he bought himself white sports shoes and now he thinks about the whiteness of his shoes all day long. He comes home from work and makes me clean his shoes with cotton swabs so that they do not have stains on them. I’m tired already. I don’t know what to do anymore.